Ask each other these questions (print two copies)
What are your favorite things to:
(Try to get 3 preferred scents)
(Try to find our 3 beautiful things your mate loves to SEE)
(Try to get 3-4 textures or things your mate likes to touch)
(Try to find out three or 4 things your mate loves to hear – sounds in nature, music, etc.)
(Get a list of 5-6 favorite foods/ drinks)
Now each of you select a date on the calendar to create a date for your mate that incorporates all their favorites.