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What’s the Secret to Long Lasting Love?

December 14 marked 40 years of wedded bliss for us!

We celebrated by spending the day with our grandkids, spending the evening with friends and family on our boat in the annual Parade of Lights Boat parade — and drum roll please– our soon to release NEW BOOK:

Marriage Meet Ups:A Planner for Couples Who Want a Productive, Passionate and Purposeful Life

Having made it together 40 years now, people often ask, “What’s your secret?”  And, for sure it is our daily choice to place God right in the center of our life. Our marriage verse is 1 John 4:19: We love because He (God) first loved us. 

And after writing 50+ books, we have shared A LOT about what God has taught us on how to follow Jesus to create a love to look forward to living and a leaving a legacy of love in your family and sphere of influence– but one secret to success in both personal and professional life we have not shared until now is our “Marriage Meet Up” plan and weekly strategy sheets.

One  very vital and wise choice we made years ago as newlyweds was to have a “Monday Morning Marriage Meeting“. We would head out for a short exercise workout, meet for breakfast then pray and talk about EVERYTHING so God could help us pull together, in the same direction, rather pull apart!

And now we want to share these positive, pro-active interactive Marriage Meet Ups  (His and Hers) journals with YOU!

Marriage MeetUps is available for pre-order right now on our Love-Wise website. 

Here is the back cover copy so you can see how you and your spouse, and EVERY couple can be encouraged, equipped, enriched and unified with the Marriage Meet Ups planner:

You are a unique couple and you deserve to have a unique plan for your journey together. The quality of your marriage is determined by the decisions you make together. Many couples make these choices a bit haphazardly hoping everything turns out well, but they wish there was a more structured way to figure things out and build a bright future TOGETHER. Marriage Meetups provides a plan you can follow to intentionally design the type of marriage, family and life you want as a couple. It is dynamic, deliberate and adjustable because it is your plan for your relationship

 This collection of strategy sheets will guide you to …

  • Gain insight into how your spouse likes to live
  • Have productive conversations that minimize conflict
  • Make decisions together that maximize emotional, spiritual and physical connection
  • Improved conversations about money and financial choices
  • Boost productivity so you get more done at work, home, or ministry
  • Delegate well so things do not fall through the cracks of a busy life
  • Nurture your relationship and create more time for the happy-side of marriage, romance, and intimacy
  • Get and stay on the same page so you can move forward TOGETHER in unity
  • Strengthen your spiritual life together and draw you closer to God and your partner

Bestselling authors of more than 50 books, Pam and Bill Farrel have been happily married for 40 years and one of the key ingredients of their marital, family and business/ministry success is their weekly “Monday Morning Marriage Meetings”. They have discovered that a weekly proactive planning date/ marriage meeting lowers stress and raises the enjoyment level of life.  The Farrels have fine-tuned these strategy sheets to include activities and choices that are proven to provide strength to a marriage. Woven into each weekly date are key decisions that boost productivity with activities that draw hearts closer and fan the flame of romance—even for the busiest couples!  These Marriage Meetups are great for EVERY couple that wants the best for their marriage, family, work and/or ministry.

Pre-order today.  The set of planners will ship early in the  new year.

It has been a JOY being happily married for 40 years– and we desire, hope and pray our Love-Wise ministry, our 50+ books and especially this new Marriage Meet Ups book will draw couples closer and provide skillful tools for long lasting love.

Speaking of joy, this year I co-authored Discovering Joy in Philippians: A Creative Bible Study Experience, and I created a 12 Days of Christmas Joy worksheet so you can cultivate joy in your personal life, marriage or family by proactively planning one thing that will bring you joy each day between now and Christmas. Download The 12 Days of Christmas Joy sheet at the Discovering Joy in Philippians book page.

12 Days of Christmas

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Oh, and everything at Love-Wise store is 15% off TODAY thru Dec 24 to share the joy and celebrate our 40th anniversary! (Use code 40Years).  Thanks for celebrating with us!

Bill and Pam Farrel are international speakers, authors of 50 plus books including mega bestseller, Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti, Red Hot Monogamy and The Best Decisions a Couple Can Make. The Farrels are Co-Directors of Love-Wise, an organization that encourages, equips and enriches a person’s most vital relationships.

The Farrels are currently living out their marriage adventure from their liveaboard boat slipped in a marina in Southern California.

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